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Do We See The Same Thing?

February 11, 20153 min read

“Each person is looking at the exact same situation... differently.” - Audrey Friedman, RN

Reading and Experiencing give different perspectives.

In my clinical work in our Medical and Trauma Intensive Care Unit, I will frequently precept new nurses and mentor them through their beginning cases and years in our unit.

The part I love most is being able to create the big picture... take the case apart, look at the single pieces and help them put the case back together with a new perspective.

Sometimes, the most important part of helping clients is helping them see the case from many perspectives...

A patient's distress can seem overwhelming...

THE NURSE may see people coming from every direction wanting what seems like 20 different things for the same patient.

THE PATIENT says they are in pain all the time and keeps asking every 5 minutes for more pain medication.

THE FAMILY keeps coming out to the desk saying their family is in pain and demanding the nurse do something NOW!

THE SURGEON wants to know why the patient is calling them directly saying the nurse won't give them more pain medication.

THE PHYSICIAN PAIN SPECIALIST discontinues a PCA [patient controlled analgesic] self-administered narcotic pump and orders oral narcotics for pain only.

THE NURSES ON THE UNIT wonder why your patient is on the light every 5 minutes.

THE NEW NURSE looks at me frantically, wondering why I am calmly choosing to sit her down and explain how to evaluate the situation instead of running into the patient's room with pain medication.

Each person is looking at the same situation differently.

THE PATIENT sees their history of uncontrolled pain for years. Now with a surgery, they were told there would be no more pain and yet it is worse than ever.

THE FAMILY feels helpless, watching their family member be sleeping and hard to wake up one minute, screaming the next minute and yet falling asleep during conversations and dropping their water because they fell asleep.

THE SURGEON just wants the facts... are we medicating or not? What did we give? What's the plan? Why did their patient text their cell phone during another surgery?

THE PHYSICAN PAIN SPECIALIST has given a transition pain plan using multiple modalities that if used correctly, will address the pain in multiples of time, dosing, category of narcotics and non-narcotics, side effects and ways to administer the medications that should achieve a goal of awake, functional and able to participate in therapy instead of being in a stupor.

THE NURSES are busy. Call lights are noisy and annoying. Everyone wants something NOW!

The key to being effective is seeing all the perspectives and being able to respond to all of them appropriately.

Is it possible? Yes.

If you can see the case from each perspective.

A nurse has real-life experience inside the scenes of a medical record and can help you understand the story.

Your case can be told in a small amount of medical records or endless volumes that seem to take over your office. It takes a lot of time to review!

Someone who knows the inside of the medical record can help you understand the story quickly, efficiently and precisely.

That saves you time to do what you do best... evaluate the case and take action.

Helping You Find The Answers.

Audrey Friedman, RN

Friedman Medical Legal Consulting, LLC

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Audrey Friedman, RN

Audrey Friedman, RN has been a nurse for over 37 years with a wide variety of amazing experiences helping people in clinical situations in newborn intensive care, oncology, bone marrow transplant, cardiology, and adult intensive care units. Audrey has enjoyed providing care to patients, their families, the community in a variety of clinical roles including bedside nursing, case manager, education, travel nurse, office nurse, community speaker, online educator and legal nurse consultant. Audrey has loved being a mentor to nurses in various stages of their career from nursing students to experienced nurses as well as collegial opportunities to paramedics and firefighters in mentor roles as a creative clinical preceptor, educator, and blogger. Audrey always wanted to be a nurse and fondly remembers reading children’s’ books on Clara Barton and Florence Nightingale and costumes of nurses’ caps around her house believing there was magic in the white cap. Audrey graduated in nurses whites and caps and still believes in the magic nurses have, to affect change in healing in people’s lives. Audrey’s ‘Nursing Wit and Wisdom’ project for nurses was nominated for the 2015 Nightingale awards. One of the wonderful things about nursing, Audrey believes, is the ability to be a nurse in so many different clinical specialties, environments, and locations that as we are helping people heal, they are changing us too and we, as healers are never the same.

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Nurses have the unique privilege to have a backstage pass to our patients' and families' journeys. In the process, we teach, listen, clean up things only your mother or a toxic waste company would touch, and love to wake up doctors in the middle of the night.

And hopefully, we inspire and share our wisdom along the way.

The journey is not only for them, but for us as well. Our own journey as nurses has been seeded by what we experience. Do you see them as gifts or challenges? Can both inspire you?

I hope so!

This is the perfect companion for nurses, nursing students, medical students and all those who share in a nurse's life.

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Audrey Friedman, RN